On Friday, June 24, 2005, on the Feast Day of St. John the Baptist, the patron
saint of our Order of Malta, in the Church of St. John the Baptist in the Archdiocese
of Seattle, the Seattle Chapter said “Farewell” to Angie Herbert,
a malade on our 2004 Lourdes Pilgrimage.
Angie and
her husband Shawn were in only the second
annual group that Seattle has had the privilege
of sponsoring to Lourdes. Angie was not
initially selected by the Lourdes Committee
and it wasn’t until late in the process,
when another malade couldn’t go,
that we were able to resubmit Angie for
reconsideration. It seemed like its own
sort of Lourdes Miracle when Angie was
then accepted for Lourdes.
Angie was
suggested to us by Marsha Baumann who was
in Seattle’s very first group of
malades in 2003. After her 2004 return
from Lourdes, Angie herself suggested
Kristen and Gloria Strauss, who made our
2005 Lourdes Pilgrimage. It is important
and meaningful to us that we are so far
having our malades themselves enthusiastically
share and pass on the legacy of grace that
comes with a pilgrimage to Lourdes. The
Miracle of Lourdes takes many forms.
In Seattle,
once you experience Lourdes as a malade,
you always remain and are welcome to continue
at no cost as a part of our Chapter’s “Order
of Malta family”. All our prior and
the following year’s prospective
malades are invited to our monthly Masses,
and to most all of our other gatherings
such as World Day of the Sick, Lourdes
Reunion Mass & Dinner, Lenten and Advent
Afternoon’s of Recollection, our
Annual Summer Social, our British Columbia
Marian Pilgrimage, and our Matt Talbot
Center Christmas Dinner.
In the 2 1/2
years since Angie first applied in December
2003, we have come to love her and to pray
for her and her family. She was a wonderful
wife and mother to four young children.
She and her loving, faith-filled, and faithful
husband Shawn have twin boys Daniel and
Peter born in 2002 a daughter Grace born
in 1999, and a daughter Sophie born in
1998.
Angie was
diagnosed with an anaplastic astrocytoma
in Janurary 2003. Angie took seriously
ill the day after Mother’s Day this
year. A few days later, at our Prospective
Members meeting on May 18th, we distributed
a picture we had taken of Angie at our
Summer Social last year. We continued to
remind each other of Angie’s progress
and need for prayer via e-mails. Angie
turned 33 on May 27 th. She seemed to be
recovering slightly, but she entered her
eternal rest on Father’s Day June
19, 2005.
Angie was
a gifted writer and passionate about literature,
books and words. She kept a detailed journal
every day and left a legacy of notebooks
for her family and friends, and so her
children could come to know her better
when the lonely times would come and they
would miss their mother.
Members of
our Chapter attended both Angie’s
vigil, and her Funeral Mass held on the
feast of St. John the Baptist in the Church
of St. John the Baptist. During the vigil
we were able to talk about our prayer partner
program and how important Angie and Shawn
were to all of us.
At the Funeral
Mass, we were asked by the family to wear
our church robes, and to formally escort
Angie’s casket both upon her entrance
into the church and upon her departing
the sanctuary. We also escorted her children
and their friends bringing gifts and symbols
of Angie’s life to the altar, and
we helped place them on the table near
the Easter Candle--symbol of Christ’s
light in Angie’s life.
As we escorted
Angie’s casket from the church, we
were invited to bless her casket with Holy
Water. It was our final salute and prayer
of farewell to Angie.
We attended
Angie’s reception and spoke with
her friends and family and with her parish
priest. It was a day of remembering and
a day of dawning as we realized that perhaps
we will be asked to participate in future
funerals for our malades. We enjoy a closeness
with our malades; they continue to encourage
us, to invite us to be united in prayer
with them and their families, and with
each other. Important traditions are being
born in our Seattle Chapter.
We are now
guided by an angel—Angie Herbert.
We expect to continue our relationship
with Shawn and their family. He’s
already said he hopes that his daughters
might one day become Lourdes volunteers.
In Seattle
, we feel graced and blessed by Angie Herbert’s
pilgrimage, to Lourdes and throughout this
life. It was a privilege to be a part of
Angie’s farewell, hopefully a fitting
Farewell to Our Lord, the Sick.
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